Thanksgiving Video

Just in case you don't follow me on twitter, or are a fan of Crossroads on facebook...here's the video from Crossroads Thanksgiving Outreach at the Annex.


Thanksgiving @ Crossroads 2009 from Crossroads Enterprise on Vimeo.

WEEKEND UPDATE (112909)

Greetings!  Smashing weekend at Crossroads, following an indescribably wonderful Thanksgiving week!  Here's a few quick hits:

1. MANY rededicated their lives to Christ on Sunday!  MANY first-time attenders.  (You gotta WANT to come to church on Sunday after Thanksgiving).  We had a great turnout and amazing attendance for a holiday weekend!  Average attendance for the 5 weeks of November was 265.  We're growing together!
2. Santa For Seniors kicked off Sunday.  Great job by Nat & Will Lurie getting prepared.  Overwhelmingly positive first-weekend response.  Of the ornaments on the Christmas tree in the lobby, representing 50 seniors to purchase Christmas gifts for, I think over 40 of them were taken!  Way to go Crossroads family!  Your generosity is helping to make Jesus famous in Enterprise!  
3. LOVED worship yesterday!  Band sounded great.  LOVED the opener! Totally rocked.  One long-time Crossroads attender wrote on his Communication Card: "Most of the songs the band covers are BETTER than the original!"  I agree.
4. Tough to let Nic and Janna go as they take off the month of December to have a baby.  We'll miss you guys, but we promise to not just HOLD the fort, but ROCK IT to the foundation while you are gone!
5. We fortunate to have such a great tech team that brings high quality support to everything that happens on the stage.  Without them, Crossroads would be an uninteresting and very dark and very quiet place!
6. We are also fortunate to have the people that take the stage as communicators at Crossroads.  Rachel, Natalie and Chris make us feel comfortable, welcome and informed every week.  Thanks guys!
7. Ben Rice brought the message yesterday for Part Two of PAY IT FORWARD and did a great job inspiring us to make generosity infinitely practical with this simple challenge: 7 DAYS - 3 RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS.  Great job Ben!  Your Crossroads family loves you for your incredible faithfulness and willingness to ALWAYS bring your best to everything you do!  Band geek.
8. Thanks to ALL of our leaders and volunteers who show up week in and week out and bring it!  There IS no Crossroads without you doing what you do!
9. Great to see so many old friends we haven't seen in a while yesterday.  Always fun to get a hug and say hello again!
10. Can't say enough about Children's Ministry at Crossroads.  It was a thrill yesterday to show someone who hasn't been to Crossroads in a while our new Children's Annex!  They were blown away by the growth at the church.  So am I!
11. We got to see a video of Thanksgiving at the Annex.  There was a lot of Kleenex in use by the time that video was over.  (NOTE: For the MANY who asked, the Thanksgiving video WILL be posted on the Crossroads facebook page today.) 
12. And finally, your response to Crossroads first Benevolence Offering was simply AMAZING!  We now have over $2400 in the Benevolence fund.  That's a GREAT way to start!  Well done church!   

Again, thanks to all who made November a TURNING-POINT month at Crossroads!  From your overwhelming, New Testament-church generosity, to your unselfish service in meeting the needs of others in our community, we are coming STRONG out of the corner as we head toward Christmas and the New Year.  As you put into practice the things we have talked about over the past few weeks, and as you commit to 7 DAYS - 3 RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS, think about what the Apostle Paul said: "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind, let each esteem others better than himself." (Philippians 2:3) Living this scripture in REAL LIFE is key to turning Random Acts of Kindness, into an intentional lifestyle of serving others.

Peace.

   

  

THANKSGIVING UPDATE

I have written and re-written this post several times.  I can't seem to get it right.  I'm so amazed at what God did here yesterday that it's really difficult to find the right words (and put them in the right order) to adequately describe what happened, and how I feel about it.  Noting I could say would add to, or subtract from, what happened in our community.  Perhaps bullets would be best:

• 700 plates we prepared and given out yesterday, the vast majority of them at the Annex, but 100 or so at Martin Trailer Park.
• Thank you to the dozens of people who worked for days to prepare enough food to feed all those people.
• Thank you to Rhonda Childers and Sherry DeCesare and their families, who are due honor from all of us for their leadership in making this happen.
• Thank you to Pastor Izzy and all of our brothers and sisters from Rio de Vida who broke down cultural and language barriers and wooed the crowd from the streets.
• Random thought:  A little vision goes a long way. I had an idea last Thanksgiving to do something like this.  It was not an original idea.  (BTW, most of my original ideas are never allowed to take place.  That's God protecting you from me, and me from myself). All of this was God's idea.  Proof of that is that MY idea wasn't this big.  Further proof is that I was panicked for the last three days that all this work would be done...and no one would show up.  Proof of that is that until about 11:30AM yesterday, I was pretty sure that I had failed and this event was a bust.  
• I am such a tool.  
• When HUNDREDS of hungry people began streaming through the door of the Annex, I felt very small.  How about you?  I saw MANY moved to tears, as we saw God move in our community.
• The majority of people who came to eat yesterday came from across the street.  That beautiful neighborhood filled with so many beautiful people.  People living in a strange culture where they are reviled by most Americans when they're not being used as cheap labor.  People living on the edge of an existence where poverty would be a step up.  Beautiful people, with beautiful smiles.  

The big take-away from all of this is all the PEOPLE.  God loves PEOPLE so much.  He loves those who SERVED and He loves those who came to BE SERVED.  So many people.  Oh, thank you God that we get to do life together in this way!  Serving God is a privilege.  

I want to hear YOUR takeaway from Thanksgiving @ the Annex.  Post your comments here.

Peace.

  

Preparations for a Feast

     Late this morning, Leslie and I drove out to Camp Alaflo where Sherry, Rhonda, Hollie, Caitlin, Lindsay, Alice, Sarena, and Kathryn were working diligently making preparations for Crossroads Thanksgiving Outreach.  Teams of people have been moving through the neighborhoods around the Annex passing out flyers in English and Spanish, inviting people to be our guests for a Thanksgiving feast on Thursday.  The Annex has been prepared to receive all who will come and eat.  

     And then I had this chilling thought:  What if we made all these preparations - what if all the food had been generously given, the meals prepared, the word spread throughout our community - what if THE TABLE IS PREPARED...and no one comes to receive what has been freely given?  Though there will be MANY volunteers to eat heartily, and much food would be available, how heartbreaking it would be to make PREPARATIONS FOR A FEAST, and find that no one wanted to be served, no one wanted to sit at the table, no one wanted to eat, no one wanted to receive.  

     Now I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer, but these dots are way too obvious for even me not to be able to connect.  A GREAT FEAST has been prepared for all humankind.  The Master of the house has invited all to come and dine freely.  But many will hear the invitation and decline.  How God's heart must ache for those who choose not to come, when it's His desire that ALL should receive of His generous gift of grace.  

     But you know what?  It is not up to us to decide who will come; only to make preparations, and to extend the INVITATION.  So go.  Go throughout our community and spread the word, so that the house may be full.  Invite those who are uninvited.  For what CREDIT do we get if we invite only those we know, only those who will invite us back?  Go, and be merciful, just as God has been merciful to you and me.  

     

     Peace.

      

WEEKEND UPDATE (112209)

What an amazing weekend at Crossroads.  In fact, it was an amazing week leading up to Sunday.  Here's a few quick take-away's:

1. Volunteer meeting at the Annex for Thursday's Thanksgiving Outreach was amazing.  Rhonda and Sherry are really well organized and have poured themselves into this whole deal.  The volunteer turnout was remarkable!  Still need MORE volunteers to get flyers out today and tomorrow.  Call Hollie.
2. Sunday morning was overcast, drizzly and an absolutely perfect day for church.
3. Many rededicated their lives to Christ.
4. Again, TONS of first-time attenders.
5. We are AVERAGING over 273 in service each Sunday.  AVERAGING!  That's 150 MORE than this time last year.  When we go to two services, that number is going to go through the roof.  Why is that important?  So people can look at us and go, "They sure are growing fast"?  So we can feel good about ourselves?  So we can act really cool?  No!  If we're averaging 273 people, that means we have 273 opportunities to experience LIFE-CHANGE together!  273 weapons to arm to REACH OUR WORLD for Christ!  273 history-making world-changers to celebrate with!  273 reasons that our community will NEVER be the same!  Don't be nervous about counting.  God is adding to the church daily (Acts 2)!  
6. Outside of my easy chair, or hanging out with Leslie and the kids, the Lobby at Crossroads is my favorite place on EARTH to be!
7. Worship was smashing on Sunday.  Nic, Janna, AND Emberlin were wonderful.
8. I walked into each Cinema and also the Children's Annex on Sunday BLOWN AWAY by how many people are serving, and how God has enlarged our footprint in the community.  Humbling.
9. What a challenging message on Sunday morning.  If you weren't there for Part One of PAY IT FORWARD you need, need, need to listen to the podcast.  I promise, it will change FOREVER the way you think about generosity.  It changed me.
10. Mike Misunas ROCKED him some chocolate chip cookies!  He was so funny.  Again, if you weren't there, listen at minute 39 of the podcast to hear Misunas try to back out of coming up on stage for an illustration.  He sounded like a machine gun, "No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no..!"  So funny.
11. Can I just say that though we still have them for a little while, I am going to miss our Hawaiian contingent so much when they get out of flight school.  I think we need to plant a sister church in Hawaii.  Any volunteers?  Put your hand down, Leslie!
12. Overwhelmed by giving toward the end-of-the-monthly Benevolence Offering.  $1700 has already been given, and we haven't yet received the offering.  This is the kind of outrageous, over-the-top, ridiculous, hilarious generosity that Jesus was talking about.     
13. When I walked into the Annex this morning I saw more of that.  The place doesn't look like somewhere poor people come to wolf down a free meal.  It looks like somewhere honored guests come to break bread with one another.  It took my breath away.  Kinda made me teary-eyed.  I can't help it.  I'm Italian.  
14. I had tears running down my face watching "Blindside" last night at the college cinema, too.  Speaking of which, the building is a whole lot cleaner when we're having church in it, then when they're showing movies in it.  Thanks Clark, and thank you God, that we GET to do church there!

Okay, I could go on, but I'm gonna stop.  This morning someone visited the Annex to PAY IT FORWARD.  Thank you for your kindness and generosity to my family.  I went outside and helped someone I didn't know change their tire in the parking lot.  PAY IT FORWARD this week.  Give, like Jesus said - NOT because you have MORE and they have LESS, not because you OUGHT to, not because it would be FAIR - give because God gave.  Be children of the Most High, who is kind to the unthankful and the wicked.

Make SURE you invite people to Thanksgiving Dinner from 11AM to 1PM, this Thursday at the Annex.  Remember, church isn't just what we do at the College Cinema on Sunday.  It's who we ARE and what we do when we LEAVE the College Cinema on Sunday.  Go change the world for Christ!

Peace.

    

M-A-R-G-I-N

I participate twice a month in a video coaching network for church planters.  It's my first video network, but the third coaching network I've been in in less than two years.  I got into the whole coaching network thing in early 2008 after a group of us attended a conference.  I didn't really see the point at the time, but the guy on the stage said, "The number one thing your pastor needs to do if you are planting a church is get in a coaching network".  His reasons were compelling and convincing.  I was first in line to sign up that day, and the impact on my life, and on Crossroads has been immeasurable.

My first network was face-to-face with a dozen other planter/pastors and a coach, Hal Mayer.  We met all day, once a month, for six months in Ocala, Florida.  I learned in those six meetings, and in the study time associated with the meeting, things people unfortunately do not learn on their own...until it's too late, and the church they planted closes it's doors.  I learned things to do, and just as importantly, things NOT to do.  Why is that important?  Because 80% of churches fail in the first 18 months.  Those are terrible odds.  

Like riding a motorcycle (which I do), church planting is a tenuous proposition at best.  Good coaching is like wearing a crash helmet, gloves, and leather boots (something I also do).  It's all about creating M-A-R-G-I-N.  On the motorcycle, when your margin of safety increases, your likelihood of coming home in one piece also increases.  In church planting when your margin of knowledge and experience increases, your likelihood of being there next Sunday also increases.  I like margin...'cause we only launched 15 months ago, and I'd like to be around awhile longer.     

There's other things that also creates margin.  In our personal lives.  Things like turning your heart toward God, following the teachings of Jesus and the lifestyle He modeled, regularly joining other Christ-followers in worship, reading your Bible and meditating on the Word, praying, serving others, sharing your faith.  These are a few of the ways we create margin in our personal lives.  When things get tight, margin can make the difference between success and failure...really, between life and death.

Good coaching and mentoring breathes life into what we do at Crossroads.  Where do you have margin in your life?  Where do you lack margin?  Can you see where having margin might have made the difference for you in the past?  Are you committed to creating margin for life?

Sound off.  Comments are open.

      

WEEKEND UPDATE (BOOOOSH! EDITION)

Incredible weekend at Crossroads.  Not sure where to start.  How 'bout some random thoughts?

1. Finished our series ALL IN.  I feel as though we have experienced a turning point over the last three weeks.  We taught about giving and generosity in a way I've never even HEARD about, let alone shared about.  Together we are breaking ground.
2. People rededicated their lives to Christ this morning.
3. People made decisions to go public with their faith through baptism.
4. Pastor Ben Rice rocked our NEXT STEPS class at the Annex.
5. Um...okay...it was just a different kind of service this morning.  No three-ring circus.  No belly-laughs.  No videos to break up the message into bite-sized pieces.  Just us and God.  A message uniquely crafted by the Holy Spirit to show all of us - a church that has declared our intent to practice compassion and LIVE generously - exactly how we're supposed to begin doing it.
6. I was more nervous this morning than any other time I've ever delivered a message.
7. I desperately want to honor God with everything we do at Crossroads.
8. Apparently...so do the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY of you.
9. I was BLOWN AWAY by the response to this series, and particularly, our response as a church family to this morning's message.
10. Giving has exceeded ANY two previous weeks EVER at Crossroads.  And it came at a time that the message we shared was NOT what churches always SEEM to share about money, about giving, about generosity.
11. I can't explain it.  I don't know how to share it with other pastors or church planters.  Heck, I don't even understand it myself.  But God is DOING SOMETHING ON PURPOSE in our community, and He is doing it IN us and TO us and THROUGH us, and our only responsibility in all of it is to show up, suit up, and say, "Okay, Lord...I'll do it.  Whatever it is."
12. The "whatever it is part" gained tremendous clarity this morning as we crossed a new generosity threshold by instituting a monthly benevolence offering to be received for widows and the fatherless.  It could not come at a more important time.
13. Though I was very specific about our practice of NEVER preaching or teaching about finances, or giving, or generosity and then springing an offering on everyone - and though our first monthly benevolence offering will not be received until the last Sunday of this month - a family quite new to Crossroads pressed a check into Leslie's hand after the service, made out to Crossroads, for the purpose of seeding our benevolence fund.  The check was for $1000.
14. I feel very small in the presence of a very BIG God.

Guys, this morning, worship was wonderful, the lobby was fabulous, our tech team was first-rate, the Filling Station, Highway 68, the Children's Annex were all rocking.  Staffed by faithful, loving, caring people, every element of a Sunday at Crossroads was executed with passion and excellence.  And then I got up on the platform and bumbled and stumbled my way through a message that somehow demonstrated that God has made all of us responsible for what happens to widows, the fatherless, the homeless, the hungry, the thirsty, the naked, the hurting, the sick, and the imprisoned.  God has made us painfully aware that we are called to more than merely entertain, we are called to minister the Love of Christ to our community.

In the weeks and months and years to come, let it be said of Crossroads that we are DOING the work, not just talking about it.  In the weeks and months and years to come, as God is seeking those who will worship Him in spirit and in truth, let Him find us DOING the kind of worship He talked about in Isaiah 58, in Matthew 25, in James 1.

I am humbled to serve as your pastor, and to serve God and the those He loves, with you.   

 

COMMENTS OPEN (And Other Stuff...)

Been a super busy week this week, so I haven't devoted time to the Intersection. But I have made a decision, after much encouragement from others, TO REOPEN COMMENTS on this Blog. I believe the time is right to do this, especially in light of the fact that we are breaking new ground at Crossroads in the area of generosity, and what the church has traditionally been willing to say about it. You probably want - and need - to weigh in on the subject.

For too long, the message concerning giving (specifically financial giving and generosity in general) from the pulpit of many churches has been couched in...well...the couch. The message has been dumbed down and designed to make sure that no one is challenged or offended (God forbid you should challenge or offend anyone - they might stop giving, and pastors the world over might have to actually trust God for their salaries and benefits), leaving many of us thinking that what Jesus is really interested in is you and I signing a check while keeping the actual needs of actual people at arms length.

The message of the Gospel has always represented danger to the status quo. We're gonna dig into that a bit on Sunday at Crossroads...

As far as comments go, please keep them on point. Anyone who makes it personal, or attacks someone else will be banished. Other than that...you are free to say what you will.

A couple of other quick notes:

1. Don't forget about our NEXT STEPS class for new believers or those returning to the faith. This Sunday, November 15th at 4:30 PM at the Annex. Maybe it's not for you, but for someone else. Make sure you let THEM know about it.
2. We're still taking donations for our Thanksgiving feed at the Annex. There's a list and a sign up to help in the Cinema lobby. If you have any questions, see Rhonda Childers or Sherry DeCesare on Sunday. There will be a meeting at the Annex for Thanksgiving Outreach volunteers on Saturday November 21st at 10AM at the Annex. As always, you can drop donations off on Sunday at the Cinema, or any day during the week at the Annex. We are also happy to receive your financial donations to help fund this event.
3. Make sure you check out Denise Bradberry's special 3-part segment 'Digital Aging' on WTVY Wed, Thur, Fri of this week. (I think the segment with me and Leslie is tonight).

I've got a TON of stuff to get finished before Sunday, so if we don't see one another before then...have a GREAT weekend, enjoy the beautiful weather, ROLL TIDE and see you at Crossroads on Sunday morning for the final part of ALL IN!!

WEEKEND UPDATE (110809)

Hey guys, fantastic morning at Crossroads. I am at the Annex early for ROADIES 101 tonight, so I thought I'd go ahead and do the update. Here's a few quick hits from the weekend:

1. Over a dozen people reconnected with their faith this morning as they rededicated their lives to Christ! Sweet!!
2. Totally awesome all-time high attendance today of 301!
3. Dozens of first-time attenders!
4. Worship was awesome this morning! Though we had some lighting problems and half the band was in the dark, they sure sounded GREAT! Fantastic facebook update about worship from one Crossroads attender: "The band was singing at church this morning, and people behind me were singing. It felt like I was in a pocket of beautiful". What a GREAT takeaway!
5. New video intro by Will Lurie - "Not Exactly Grandma's Church" - was EXCEPTIONAL! Funny, engaging, great animation, and absolutely true!
6. Teaching Pastor Ben Rice brought a GREAT message this morning in the second week of our new series ALL IN. He was sharp and well-prepared. He overcame technical difficulties, people getting out of their seats, babies crying, and a large dark area on the stage, and shared one of the best things I think I've ever heard at Crossroads on why we give: "To give momentum to the Gospel and meet the needs of others."
7. Liked this too: "Generosity takes faith, and gives hope". That's HUGE!
8. No one can embarrass themselves by singing a goofy song better than Ben Rice. We are not worthy to be in the presence of such mad rhyming skills.
9. Second week of the new Children's Annex and Highway 68. Everyone seems to have a great handle on the new areas and they are working well. Kudos to everyone involved!

Today. Tomorrow. Every day. IF you are free. Free to choose. Free to invent, to create, to dream, to live. Thank God. And thank a veteran. Veteran's Day is Wednesday, November 11th. Thank you veteran's for your service to our country!

Tonight as I prepare for ROADIES 101, I am in awe of what God is doing in our community. Completely blown away and totally humbled. So grateful for all who are pouring their lives into the kingdom of God by serving at Crossroads. Amazed. God is so good. We have seen 80% growth in less than six months. Let's celebrate and give Him glory!!

Can't wait to see what happens next...

Glad To Be Here

Wow. Brutal week. Lots of meetings. Lots of details. Lots of hustling. And a good deal of pressure in the tent-making department. But MUCH forward progress for the Kingdom of God in Enterprise, Alabama!! You know, sometimes you're flying high, and sometime you're grinding it out a step at a time. But in everything rejoice and give thanks to God!

Really looking forward to this weekend! Can't wait to hear Pastor Ben's message on Sunday, and welcome new members to the fold through ROADIES 101 on Sunday afternoon. So many good reports about small groups. So many relationships growing. So many new people coming. So grateful to be a part of Crossroads!!

I cut back a bit on the televised sporting events this week. The World Series is over, so I'll have to wait 'til next October to really enjoy baseball again. Got to watch Ethan Mendenhall's Steelers the other night. Even though they got beat (must've been the officiating) I had a blast. It was WAY better than TV. Taking Saturday off. Maybe a brisk ride in the morning, and ROLL TIDE in the afternoon!

Have a GREAT weekend. See you Sunday!

Many Hands Make Light Work

Many thanks to the many hands (okay...two) that Travis Hammons used to transform our dark scary Morgan Square Annex hallways, and mostly useless back closet, into bastions of glorious, welcoming brightness with the installation of light fixtures and switches. Complimenting the bomb-proof storage shelves that Mack McMichael constructed, the Hammons-installed fluorescence now make it possible to see things we have never seen before, like all the stuff that now needs to be painted. Thanks Travis and Mack! Way to go!

POKER FACES

The guy who invented poker was bright, but the guy who invented the chip was a genius.

~Author Unknown




If, after the first twenty minutes, you don't know who the sucker at the table is, it's you.

~David Levien and Brian Koppelman, Rounders




Last night I stayed up late playing poker with Tarot cards. I got a full house and four people died.

~Seven Wright




[Poker] exemplifies the worst aspects of capitalism that have made our country so great.

~Walter Matthau




There are few things that are so unpardonably neglected in our country as poker. The upper class knows very little about it. Now and then you find ambassadors who have sort of a general knowledge of the game, but the ignorance of the people is fearful. Why, I have known clergymen, good men, kind-hearted, liberal, sincere, and all that, who did not know the meaning of a "flush." It is enough to make one ashamed of the species.

~Mark Twain




The commonest mistake in history is underestimating your opponent; it happens at the poker table all the time.

~David Shoup




I must complain the cards are ill shuffled till I have a good hand.

~Jonathan Swift




"How long does it take to learn poker, Dad?"


"All your life, son."


~Michael Pertwee

WEEKEND UPDATE

Great weekend at Crossroads as we turn the corner headed for the holiday season. We saw out third-largest crowd Sunday morning with 279 people in attendance! Here's a few quick take-away's from the service:

1. MANY rededicated their lives to Christ on Sunday and several made the decision to go public with their faith through baptism!!
2. The new Children's Annex was a smash hit!! Wish we had done it months ago. Thanks to everyone who worked to make the new annex a success!
3. Highway 68, Crossroads middle school ministry, kicked off Sunday in Cinema 3 with twenty-two middle schoolers!! Great job by Pastor H and all those who serve in middle school ministry!
4. Absolutely AWESOME time of worship with Nic, Janna and the band yesterday!! Nic really connected with everyone in the building, the band sounded great, the new song was killer! Loved Nic's comment about the reason no one could clap in time with him, "Too many white people in here"! GREAT job by our worship band!!
5. Leo Taarea is a movie star! Thanks for the great vid Leo! Thank you for being so honest about how you felt about tithing before you came to Crossroads.
6. OH MY GOODNESS...I went reeeeeeeally long yesterday. Really long. So sorry. I hope no one got too antsy. I really believe that if a person can't say what they have to say in 36-42 minutes...they need to work harder and say LESS! My bad. I went 57 minutes. I apologize to all in children's ministry who had to tap dance while they waited for me to run out of wind! (BTW, don't tell my coach Hal Mayer how long I went, he'll make me run laps!)
7. Thank you Dave and Mickey for allowing me to cheat you at cards!! Great segment! Tons of laughs and lots of fun for everybody!! The most confusing card game EVER. That's the way many of us were taught to give. Disparate rules, mixed in with some sleight-of-hand, some myth, some conjecture, and VOILA! No wonder so many people don't connect with what Jesus said about being "rich toward God".
8. Even though I went long...I heard from many that they never heard much of what we shared in church before, "We give, because Jesus gave".

I could go on here, but I don't want this blog post to be as long as yesterday's message. Have a GREAT week!